Marketing Lesson Learned from a Fight with the Wife
by Jason Stewart
Maybe "fight" is a strong word. She was really annoyed with me though. I just wasn't understanding what she was saying, and it seemed like a really simple concept to her. The problem was, she kept explaining it the same way, with the same words, even though I clearly wasn't getting it. When I pointed it out to her, she took a step back and then explained it to me using different words, from a different angle, and it all clicked for me. And it was a really simple concept. And no, I don't remember what it was. But it was one of those "duh" moments when I realized how thick I was being.
As marketers we spend so much time crafting that "one" message that covers all that we are and hopefully all that we will be as a company. But don't ever forget that regardless of how simple the concept is (to you), you should have a backup. No matter how finely crafted your words are, some people are not going to get it - and it's not because they are not smart. It's just because their brains work differently than yours. It happens sometimes.
Side note....don't ever use the "well if they don't understand it then they are not in our target market" crutch, because that's a cop-out. Reliance on jargon to communicate your value is a red flag and will lead to interminable conversations with your cousin who will come up to you at Thanksgiving and ask "...so what does your company do again?" even though you've told him twelve times already. The holidays are practically here. Come up with an elevator pitch your cousin will understand.




